Motherless Child

What do you say about a book you have no words for?  Do you call it wonderful?  Do you call it extraordinary?  Or what about phenomenal?  Well, I have to say something right?  It's my job to write a review.  Ms. Valencia your book is wonderful-extraordinary-phenomenal- and any other word that describes perfectly written.

Not only did you tell your story well, you stayed within a timeline that made it easy for any reader to follow without wondering how did I get here.  It flowed and fit like a hand in a glove.  I knew before I asked you to send me your manuscript, it would not disappoint.

Before I rate it though, I'd like to point one thing out to you and your readers.  Without giving away too much, on page 12 you really struck me when you asked (something like) if anyone ever wonder or care about the children of drug addicts.  Well, as a product of drug use, I wondered the same thing as a child.  However, I can boldly say, yes many people do wonder and care.  Often times we do not understand how society can or may turn a blinds eye to the children but many will stop at nothing to help these children like you and me.  You shared that part of your journey when you told about your dear friend Abby.

Another thing to add, I commend your strength.  I have to commend your courage. I know the depths of hell you had to visit in order to bless us with this piece of art.  So many children, I pray, will read "Motherless Child" and see themselves as I have.  They will find the strength they need to live on.  Many adults will read, I hope, and know they aren't the only ones who have struggled or still struggle.  Healing is a process.  As long as you have the courage to seek peace, you will find it.

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I give "Motherless Child"

The Spiritual Battle

Sometimes there is only one word to define something and today for me, the word for Lucretia Shaw Cargill's book, is PHENOMENAL!

Before I continue with my review, I must remind my readers that my reviews are of amateur authors/writers.  I give these new writers a platform that is very rarely provided, especially to thoe who aren't writing erotica.  That's a whole 'nother story in itself.  But, I digress!

Because the message in this book is so darn remarkable, I almost forgot Mrs. Cargill is what we call amateur.  If she's not seasoned in her walk as an author, she is definitely or appears to be seasoned in her faith walk.  She constantly reminds us (the readers) of her experiences of pain, persistence, dedication, and strength while yet reminding us that we wrestle not with flesh and blood.  Therefore, we must cast all of our cares on the one who gives us life.

I enjoyed reading "The Spiritual Battle".  In fact, I enjoyed it so much, I forgot I had more books in Que.  I wanted to read every word from start to finish. I found myself trying to buy time.  I think what resonated with me is her particular style of telling her story.  I'm not sure if she knows it or not but I almost thought I was reading one of the many old school christian books my great grand mother used to have sitting in her living room.  You see, there is no fluff with this book.  There is no new age jargon...just real raw heart wrenching christian emotion. 

Yes, Lucretia took me back to my roots.  What an enjoyable experience.



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I give "The Spiritual Battle"

The Broken Image

By Tera  Young

"Continuing from chapter one, About Myself, something was missing. What was missing was my innocence. It was already taken away. I had a lack of identity due to past experiences and so instead of going off to college to fulfill purpose, I was going off to college to try and seek out an identity."

In my most humble opinion, the story began or I thought it began for me after reading the quote above.  Then really shortly after, Ms. Young dropped me off right there and  then shut the door ... tightly shut.  I'm like what happened? 

I want more!!!!!  Ms. Young, you can't just leave me here wondering what happened to you as a child or young adult that makes you a person of integrity on the subject of, "brokenness".  What was your struggle?  What did it look or feel like?  You told me what it should look like to be healed but somewhere along the way I missed YOUR story before the healing. 

I think many readers will feel the same as I do.  They'll want to know so much more about what happened to Tera  that really led to her passion to write this story.  What I think is happening here, after much contemplation, is a compare/contrast sort of tale. 

Overall Ms. Young gives great biblical perspectives and then she gives the readers flashes of her personal encounters or accounts of her life. I think once the above questions are addressed, "The Broken Image" will be on it's way to SUCCESS.


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I give this book -

STRETCHED THIN

FINDING BALANCE WORKING AND PARENTING CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

By :  Dr. April Lisbon

First and foremost I'd like to say thank you Dr. Lisbon for such a remarkable expression of truth, strength, transparency, and dedication.  I think, Stretched Thin touched me more deeply than many I've read before, mostly due to the fact that I was a caretaker of an ailing parent, my mother for many many years.  I truly understand what it's like to be everything to almost everyone, to include the family member who can't care for him/herself, but to also try to keep yourself from sinking or falling into deep despair.

"The truth is, grief is a funny thing. I am battling today as to how much of myself I am willing to

share, for fear that it may create conflict with those I love.  Yet, if I am untrue to myself and my readers, writing this book will be a waste of everyone’s time, as I am not walking in my authentic truth. For me, the vision for you is that as you read this book, the words on every page will provide

light and hope in a place that has seemed to be filled with hopelessness" 

How can you get any more open that that which Dr. Lisbon expresses right at the very beginning of the book.  She sets the tone for vulnerability, not just for her but for the reader as well.  I felt right at home upon reading the first page.

This is one of the most well written books, dedicated to not only Dr. Lisbon's two boys, but it provides a road of great hope (with endearing words of truth) for those who are also traveling a not so smooth course.  But, guess what?  As with, Dr. Lisbon, the sun shines again and again even after several storms. 

I believe the lesson from this great read is that in any situation there is challenge and triumph.  No parent wants their child to go through hurts or disappointment.  No parent wants to hear the words their child or children are a little less than normal.  But, Dr. Lisbon, like many other parents have taken those words, those labels, those abnormalities and risen above them while helping the world also learn how to do the same.

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I give Stretched Thin.... 5 STARS!

Book Review -

I Am Who God Says I Am

What a refreshing read!  

Minister Kiesha L. Peterson's, "I am Who God Says I am," reminds readers of all ages, of something  priceless many have forgotten.  

Through life's challenges, unfortunately we undoubtedly forget who God says we are.  We become tainted with ungodliness that sometimes feel like shackles.  But GOD!  

Minister Peterson's book is definitely one of God's beautiful conduits used to bring his children back to the realization that we are definitely who He says we are.  Here is one of the most poignant and profound sections of Peterson's book, The Mirror.

The mirror is made up of a material that allows us to see ourselves, our outward appearance. The mirror allows us to see the color of our skin, our pimples, our blotches, blemishes and deformities. The mirror lest us see when our hair is out of place, it even lets us see when tears run down our face. However, the mirror doesn’t allow us to see the goodness that God has placed inside of each and every one of us.

The Mirror resonated with me so much.  Truthfully, I am guilty of looking in the mirror several occasions, only to add special touches to this or that but there are very few times I look at myself and say, "I am Who God Says I am", which is -

-Romans 8:2

 As a child of God, I am a fellow heir with

Christ.

-Romans 8:17

 I have been predestined by God to obtain an

inheritance.

-Ephesians 1:11

 I have been sealed with the Holy Spirit of

promise.

-Galatians 4:7

 I am God’s workmanship created to produce

good works.

Doesn't it feel good just to be reminded?  

Thank you so much Minister Peterson for gifting us with your tremendous version of God's love for us.  

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I give this work of art   

Four Gold STARS

Don't Ever Give Up...

On Love

*This is a video review

Thanksgiving is such a wonderful time for me.  I love loving family especially at this time of the year.  My husband, my children, my family and friends mean the world to me.  

This morning I realized just how blessed, how really blessed I am.  

True, there are things I desire to have.  There are places I desire to go.  However, I am finally loving where I am.  I'm thankful for where I'm going.  

Lord knows it's taken me half a lifetime to get to this place but thank God I'm here.  Yesterday I kept looking at the selfie my husband and little girl took.  As I looked at it, my emotions rose higher and higher.  I'm so grateful to have such love.  I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.  

If you desire this type of love, start by first loving where you are and what you have.  I know everyone doesn't desire the same things.  For example, after being in my secluded world with my hubby and child for a couple of years, I started to desire friends...real friends outside of my circle of the known, the comfortable, the secure.  Well, people started knocking on my door.  You know what, I'm starting to open the door wider and wider because I know they are gifts.  

This may be the love some of us desire as I did.  And, of course I'm oh so thankful for it.

The video below may express more of what I'm trying to say (Click on the word LOVE):

LOVE

In this video the young man has a severe handicap that probably would have sent most women the other way, running.  Not in this case!  Not only did he gain a friend, a lover, an angel, a confidante, this young man gained a wife.

Oh let me add, I spoke to my students about their idea of love and relationships last night.  Many who know me, I mean truly knows me, know that I'm in love with LOVE.  So, I share this energy where ever I go.  OMG, most of my student's views were so bleak, I almost couldn't stand it.  But, I realized, I too was once in that very space.  Readers, I pray I'll never be in such darkness ever again.  

I've learned that love shows up the way love is truly expressed through each of us.  In essence, if you give it with expectations and motive, then you'll get the same in return.  If you give love sparingly, you'll get or not get.  

You be the judge.

Seasons Change and So Do We - Meet Terri

Seasons Change and So Do We, the fictional novel that will remind you of your very own group of girlfriends.  

Right now, get the kindle version for only $2.99 right here - Seasons Change and So Do We.

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Meet the beautiful and adventurous...

Terri is the oldest and probably the prettiest (of the group's sister-friends), in a more refined and earthy way, but she will probably not agree. 

She is also the most physically competitive. There is nothing that she hasn’t done. I asked her once if she has a death wish or something. 

She goes skydiving and bungee jumping, surfs, plays hockey, and has traveled to Africa periodically to update her wildlife pictures.

Traveling to Africa’s jungles is what she has to do to make a living. How many normal sistahs or brothas would choose something like that as a profession? 

The job gives her pleasure, which is what life is all about if you ask Terri. She usually wakes up in the morning anxious about her day and goes to bed at night dreaming about all the exciting things she will accomplish the next day. Her passion for adventure runs deep. And her pictures (in words and photographs) of Africa has won her many respected awards. 

“You go girl!” is all I can say.

Did I mention, she has been dating the same guy for six years? That’s not that unusual, I suppose?  Well did I mention that he is a brotha? Really, he is.  He’s away on some safari somewhere, along with Terri. 

 As the story unfolds, not only does Nia (the main character) face several life altering challenges of her own, Terri's proud black heritage and world turns upside down when she discovers...


Seasons Change and So Do We!

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For your Book Club Conversation:

Define Terril?

Do you see yourself in her?  How?  Why?

Do you know anyone like her?

What do you think may have happened in Terri’s life to make her the person she is?

What kind of friend do you suppose Terri is to Nia?

If you could write the book from Terri’s point of view, what would be one point you’d expose?

Seasons do change…what about Terri?